VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. — Steve Alexy walked carefully and pigeon-toed toward the dumbbells and mirror at the back of the gym, one arm held tight against his body, the other dangling, twitching and swinging out of sync with his gait.
His longtime partner Arlyn Smith walked duck-footed toward a pullup bar, going slow too but with short, quick, little steps that ensured she’d keep her balance.
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